For, as I have often told you before and now say again even with tears, many live as enemies of the cross of Christ. 19 Their destiny is destruction, their god is their stomach, and their glory is in their shame. Their mind is on earthly things (Phil 3:18-19).
Every time I read these verses from Paul’s letter to the Philippians, I wonder if the people he describes are among the body of the local church or if they are outside it. Having been in ministry for almost 3 decades, I lean toward them being in the church. Of course, they could be in either place, but he is writing this portion with tears, suggesting that there is a nearer and dearer relationship with these people than would develop with unbelieving people. While I am sure that Paul consciously developed relationships outside the local body, the deeper relationships would grow within it, among people that he was discipling and teaching. These, I would expect, would create more emotion in him if he needed to characterize their lives in this way.
It’s not much different today. There are people in the church that are Christ’s enemies. Oh, they give lipservice to His Truth, but their lives are so lukewarm that the people of this world cannot see any significant difference in them from themselves. These “Christians” are the ones that are uncomfortable when conversations at work turn to spiritual things. They feel guilty when a friend or co-worker boldly proclaims what these “Christians” say they believe. Sometimes in private, they will try to minimize the things that their bold friend had proclaimed.
These are the people that Jesus referred to when He said, “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only he who does the will of my Father who is in heaven.” (Matt 7:21). As Paul says it, “Their end is destruction.”
Often the people Paul describes here will try to compartmentalize their lives – Sunday is for God and the other six days are for the things I want to do. They are reluctant to see their decisions to spend money or to indulge in their favorite pastime or dessert as spiritual decisions, and certainly not sin. After all, they can “worship” God just as easily on the golf course or fishing lake as they can in a church building! Their “appetite” may mean food, literally, or it may mean their favorite indulgence.
When Jesus wrote to the Church in Laodicea in Rev. 3, He observed that the lukewarm people in that church saw themselves as rich and not in need when they were really poor and blind and naked. They gloried in what really was to their shame. So it is among so-called Christians today who assume the prosperity of their lives must imply God’s favor with them. There is often a smug sense of self-righteousness, a “righteousness” that God tells us is like the rags stained with a woman’s menstrual impurity (Is 64:6), as far as He is concerned.
How do we respond to such people in the Church? First, make certain that we are not among them! Be sure that sin is confessed and the core truths of the faith are true at the deepest level in our hearts. In addition, we should pray and weep – as Paul did – for these who are our friends whose faith is so shallow and whose hearts are so deceived.